Am I ?

Aqil my 16 years old told me that I pressured him into studying and he said his mom's friends never pressured them and his friends did well in exam. So I shouldn pressure him to study and he will do well.

Am I pressuring him?I discuss with him how to study...I showed him how the questions are all almost the same every year.I even read for him his literiture book for him.I reminded him from time to time not to waste time since PMR is very very near.

With that piece of info from aqil I went around the house asking everyone including hubby whether I pressure them or not.


Conclusion....at the moment I stopped telling aqil and zaki to study....just sit with nabila with her homework and hubby too...stop asking him to do things faster.

Happy everyone?